If you're especially attracted to
beautiful Asian women, I can definitely understand. I'm a
huge fan of hot Asian girls and have dated a wide variety -- including
Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Filipina, Indonesian and Thai girls.
There are many reasons why Hot Asian
women make us feel a powerful attraction, and why they can be
ideal partners for a guy like yourself. But if you're to make these
girls feel attracted to YOU, you've got to understand what makes them
"tick." So here are ten tips that will help you make the right first
impression on hot Asian girls, and move things towards romance...
1. Understand that the term "Asian Women" contains many different
sub-categories. While most Western men think the "Asian" label mostly
refers to Chinese or Japanese girls, it actually includes more than 40
nationalities and ethnic groups. In the Philippines alone, where
there's been a lot of mixing of cultures over the country's history,
you'll meet taller women with fair complexions, along with shorter
women with dark skin. The point is, it can be hard to tell exactly
which country a lot of Asian women are from -- so don't try to guess.
This can make you appear ignorant, and you might even offend her.
Instead you can say, "You have a really unique look, where is your
family from originally?"
Also, on this subject, you should never mention to her that you've
dated other Asian women before. This is not going to make her feel like
you "understand" her. Actually, there's a good chance that she will
feel resentful. She needs to feel that she is unique and special to
you. Also, Asian women who live in Western countries are very sensitive
to the idea of "yellow fever" -- Western guys who have a fetish for
Asian girls. If she gets the sense that you're only into her because of
her race, you can forget about hooking up with her.
2. The stereotype that Asian women are meek and submissive is generally
false, however Asian women do want a masculine man -- one who can play
the role of the provider and protector. This is a huge reason why
Western guys find Asian women so appealing -- and will often never go
back to Western women once they've had relationships with Asian girls.
Asian women are purely feminine and make a man feel like a MAN.
This means that with hot Asian girls, you can't be co-dependent or
clingy. Asian men don't behave this way and if you do, it's going to
turn off Asian women. They want to feel SAFE with a man who is a
decision-maker and protector, and who is in control of his emotions.
Asian women won't feel comfortable with a guy who is needy, overly
sensitive, and complains about his problems.
3. Asian
women are particularly attracted to guys who treat them like
gentlemen, but have somewhat of a mischevious "bad boy" edge. They also
find it highly attractive when a strong, masculine guy can display a
softer, more playful side. Hollywood stars like Brad Pitt, Leonardo
DiCaprio, Matt Damon, and George Clooney are very popular in Asia
because they exhibit these qualities. Just remember, be even-tempered
and emotionally stable when you are with Asian women. Never lose your
cool.
4. Next, it is very important for you to intelligent and preferably
well-educated. Asian culture puts a strong emphasis on education and
wisdom. It will also help you to attract more Asian women if you have a
variety of interests and hobbies that you are passionate about. Give
her the sense that by spending time with you, she will grow as a
person, learn new things, and enjoy new experiences.
5. Always behave yourself in public. Guys who are loud, rude, or "show
off" in public aren't going to get anywhere with hot Asian girls. They
also appreciate proper manners, such as helping them to remove their
coat, or pulling out their chair and helping them to sit down in a
restaurant.
6. Demonstrate some familiarity with her country, its culture, and her
religion. Having an appreciation for her native cuisine is also very
helpful. If she is Westernized, she probably eats Western food,
generally--but when she's with her family, they surely still cook their
favorite exotic dishes. Learning to cook one of her favorite ethnic
meals for her will score you big points.
7. Next, a quick word of advice for you guys who are meeting Asian
women on internet dating sites: you need to see her on webcam as soon
as possible. There are literally millions of women on these websites
who are searching for a foreign boyfriend or husband -- which is fine
if their intentions are honest, but in many cases they're only looking
to score financial support for themselves and their families. Some
girls will use phony profile pictures; if the girl looks TOO gorgeous
in her pic, it may not be her! And if she makes up excuses why she
can't chat with you on a webcam, she's probably trying to hide
something. Practically all of the internet cafes in Asia nowadays have
webcams which are extremely cheap to use. If she won't show herself to
you, it's probably because she looks nowhere near as good as she does
in her picture -- or "she" might actually be a "he!"
8. You cannot come across as a player, a playboy, or a guy who isn't
interested in the possibility of a serious relationship. When you're
getting to know an Asian women, she has to know that you have the
capacity to be serious and committed. High-quality Asian women are
practical people who have an eye on the future, and for a lot of Asian
women their ideal future involves having a half-Caucasian child. You
don't need to talk about your desire to get married on the first date,
but you can mention how you're interested in this someday.
9. High-tech gadgets are very popular with Asian women -- the latest
mobile phones, digital cameras, laptops, etc. You'll impress Asian
girls if you carry any of these items (and they also make for great
conversation starters). Asian men usually know a lot about this stuff.
Also, when you're knowledgable about computers and technology -- even
if this just means owning a few cool gadgets -- Asian women take this
as a sign that you are a smart person who is moving up in life. In
Asia, being good with computers and technology is a sign of a
successful person.
10. Here's my last tip on being attractive to Asian women: understand
and accept that they have extremely close ties to their families. Don't
tell her that she needs to be more independent and ignore their advice
or wishes. This can be a challenge, because there may be times when you
want to spend time with your girl but it always seems like she has
family commitments. Getting seriously involved with an Asian girl from
a poor family can also cause problems, as she may expect you to help
her family with money (and when you start down this path, the financial
requests will never end!). That being said, you simply need to be aware
that Asian families are much more tight-knit and dependent upon each
other that your typical disfunctional family in the West. If you meet a
beautiful Asian girl who you want to build a serious relationship with,
you'll also need to be respectul of her family. If they embrace you,
then there is no question that your Asian girl will love and appreciate
you deeply.
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