Finding the right partner is one of the major
concerns of lots of people nowadays. Some of the common reasons why
people do not succeed in manifesting their ideal relationships are
negative attitudes and beliefs. If you believe that you will never
attract the perfect partner or that the ideal partner does not exist,
you will never manifest the right partner in your life. What you
believe is what you receive. It has been found that your relationships
account for 85% of your overall happiness. This means that a happy
relationship can literally change your life!
You can use the Law of Attraction to attract your
ideal partner. This powerful law states that you attract into your
life, whatever you give your energy, attention and focus to, whether
wanted or unwanted. Since your thought is energy, by holding certain
thoughts and vibrating a certain way, you become a magnet and attract
to you people vibrating at more or less the same frequency. Deepak
Chopra was perfectly right when he said “However good or bad you feel
about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the
"right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside.”
If you are vibrating at a level of 85, it is very likely that you would
attract people vibrating in a range of 80 to 90 and very unlikely that
you would attract people vibrating at a level of 10.
If you want to attract your ideal relationship,
you must become a “vibrational match” to the person you want to share
your life with. In fact, you do not get what you want but instead you
get what you vibrate. The vibrations that you emit can be either
positive or negative and the Law of Attraction will always respond to
the vibration that you are sending out by giving you more of the same.
If you are a very positive person, you will be emitting a positive
vibration and you will be surrounded by positive people. If on the
other hand, you are a person who is always angry, fearful, jealous,
etc, you will be sending out negative vibrations as a result of which
you will tend to attract more and more negative people, situations and
experiences into your life.
If you want to attract your ideal partner, you
have to see what you are currently attracting in this particular area
of your life and what vibration you are emitting. If you are not
attracting the relationship you want, you will have to be very clear
about what you want in your ideal relationship. Clarity is of utmost
importance. Most of the time, it is very difficult to know exactly what
you want in an ideal partner. One of the best ways to become clear is
to make a list of qualities and characteristics that you do not like in
your existing or previous relationships. Once you have made your list,
you can proceed by making the list of characteristics that you do want
in an ideal partner. The things that you want are the opposite of the
things that you do not want. For example, you can replace “I do not
want a quarrelsome relationship” by “I want a harmonious relationship”,
“I do not want a selfish partner” by “I want a generous partner”, etc.
Once you have become very clear about what you
want in your ideal mate, you can continue with the next step which is
to become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner you want to
attract. How do you become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner
you want to attract? Well, suppose in your list you want to attract a
loving and caring partner. If you, yourself are not caring and loving,
it will be difficult for you to attract a loving and caring person.
According to the Law of Attraction, you attract what you vibrate. You
must therefore start raising your vibration to become loving and
caring. It is only then that you can attract what you want into your
life. Stephen R. Covey said “The most important ingredient we put into
any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are.”
Once you have become clear about what you want and
you have raised your vibration to attract your ideal partner, the last
step is to allow your ideal partner to come to you. Allowing is the
absence of doubt. If you have a strong desire to attract your ideal
mate but at the same time, you have strong doubts, you will never be
able to attract what you want because you will be sending mixed signals
in the universe. If on the other hand, you have a strong desire and
some doubt, you will attract our ideal mate, but it will take a little
longer. The best formula for rapid manifestation of your ideal
relationship is when you have a strong desire and no doubt at all.
Always follow the wise advice given by Russ Von
Hoelscher “Don't rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself.
Feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and
you will soon attract that special loving other.”
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ideal-relationship-with-the-law-of-attraction-1821628.html About the Author
Priya Deelchand is a Life and Business Coach and
Founder of Success Strategies Consultants Ltd. She coaches and helps
people worldwide in both English and French using Law of Attraction,
EFT and other powerful techniques. If you want to live a happier and
more fulfilled life, please visit us at http://
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